Purpose
Values
Curiosity
Curiosity is the compass guiding us toward greater understanding. It’s the drive to question, to explore beneath the surface, and to learn with an open mind. By embracing curiosity, we challenge our assumptions, discover hidden truths, and stay grounded in the richness of human experience. Curiosity fuels personal growth, allowing us to connect with the world and each other in ways that are both deep and transformative.
Responsibility
Responsibility is a call to act with purpose and awareness. I believe in taking ownership of our choices and acknowledging how they impact ourselves and those around us. Responsibility empowers us to live intentionally, make conscious decisions, and build relationships rooted in respect and understanding. It’s about realising our influence and using it to bring positive change.
Integrity
Integrity forms the backbone of Humans by Nature, shaping the way we engage with others and with ourselves. It means standing firm in our values, communicating openly, and respecting differing viewpoints. Integrity requires honesty, humility, and the courage to seek truth over comfort. I am committed to these principles, believing that integrity strengthens relationships and builds trust that endures.
Accountability
Accountability goes hand in hand with responsibility, reinforcing our commitment to honesty and self-reflection. Accountability means holding ourselves to our values, even when it’s difficult. It’s about recognising our role in every outcome, learning from our actions, and continuously seeking to improve. Accountability keeps us grounded, aligning us with the growth we strive for in ourselves and our relationships.
Balance
Balance is about harmonising our strengths and recognising our limits, creating a life that honours both. At Humans by Nature, balance means understanding and appreciating different perspectives, especially in areas where roles and relationships intersect. Balance allows us to engage with authenticity, fostering a healthy space for growth, support, and unity amidst life’s inherent contrasts and complexities.
Courage
Courage is about stepping into the unknown with conviction. Whether exploring new ideas, confronting uncomfortable truths, or embracing personal growth, courage fuels our journey toward self-discovery and meaningful connection. It’s the strength to be vulnerable, to pursue truth, and to face challenges head-on, knowing that every step forward is a step closer to genuine fulfilment.
Vision
My vision is to guide individuals back to their authentic selves, fostering relationships that thrive on mutual respect, understanding, and balance. I aim to empower people to embrace dynamic roles and complementary qualities in their relationships, creating healthier, more connected lives.
Intention
My intention is to create meaningful content and resources that help individuals understand themselves and their relationships through a natural, balanced lens. I provide tools, insights, and guidance that promote better communication, stronger mental health, and fulfilling relationships.
My Why
On a fundamental level, I believe that each of us holds the potential to reduce human suffering by nurturing genuine, meaningful connections in our relationships and communities. When we’re driven by internal fears, we become reactive, indifferent, and often find our lives limited in ways we may not fully understand.
I see it as our personal responsibility to cultivate curiosity about the fears that quietly influence us, to question what we may be misinterpreting or avoiding, and to discover how overcoming these subconscious fears can lead to a more fulfilled, connected, and purposeful life.
I created Humans by Nature as a space for open exploration, where I can share my thoughts, experiences, and reflections on what it means to be human in today’s world. Through my own journey, I’ve found that we often lose touch with our most essential selves—caught up in distractions, material pursuits, and external pressures that pull us away from what truly matters: our connections with others and our own sense of identity.
My approach is rooted in the belief that by returning to first principles, we can better understand why we do the things we do. I’m deeply fascinated by human psychology and how it influences our behaviour, but I’ve also come to realise that a narrow, reductive approach often misses the bigger picture. To truly honour who we are as whole beings, we need to look beyond cognitive frameworks and reconnect with our bodies, hearts, fellow humans and environments.
In a world where there’s often a push to pathologise, diagnose, and medicate, I believe it’s important to resist the temptation to disconnect from our human experience. Instead, I aim to gently shift the focus back to what makes us truly human, embracing the unique flaws that make us interesting and diverse. I believe that our inner worlds—shaped by our stories, beliefs, and experiences—create the external world we live in and influence our relationships with others.
My aim is not to denigrate modern life or capitalism; in fact, I believe that the exchange of value is essential for healthy relationships and well-functioning societies. However, when we define our identity solely by career success, material possessions, and accolades, we risk losing sight of who we truly are. Through Humans by Nature, I aim to foster conversations that invite us to rediscover our authentic selves, reconnect with those around us, and live more in tune with our natural essence. By grounding discussions in the truth of our human nature, we can better understand what’s genuinely important to us—and begin to address the feelings of unfulfillment, disconnection, distraction, overwhelm, and sometimes even a sense of being lost.
Disclaimer
All content on “Humans by Nature” is written from the perspective of my personal experience, study and observations throughout my life.
While the ideas presented are rooted in the natural dynamics of men and women, readers of any sexual orientation are welcome to adapt these insights based on masculine and feminine qualities within their own relationships.
I choose not to engage with gender ideologies beyond this scope, as I aim to speak authentically from my knowledge and wisdom through what I have experienced, observed and studied.
The content provided contains generalised ideas and contemplations, with the intention of inspiring curiosity and fostering more meaningful connections. This material is meant for reflection and exploration and is not a substitute for professional, legal, or medical advice. Always seek appropriate professional guidance for your specific circumstances.